Almost three years ago, I was admitted to the
hospital with partial paralysis in my legs, in excruciating pain, and unable to
walk on my own. My husband helped to
navigate my weak and terrified body and mind into the emergency room at our
local hospital. As I lay propped up in
bed, in an over-sized hospital gown awkwardly pulled around me in an attempt to
feel dressed, I continued to tell myself that things weren't so bad. It was nothing a high dose of IV steroids
couldn't fix.
Three days later, after daily IV steroids, morphine,
numerous MRIs, and countless looks of pity, I was released in a rented wheelchair
and a physical therapy referral in my quivering hands. I only had to wait a few
days for the steroids to combat the inflammation, and then I will be back to
walking normally, I continued to tell myself.
Nearly three years later, I am still struggling to walk. I was left with nerve damage in my spinal
cord, and I waiver between some sort of acceptance, and impatiently awaiting
the dreamed about breakthrough in nerve damage repair. Each day begins with a fatigued but determined
decision to go to physical and mental combat with the damage in my spine. But more each day I realize that the true
battle continues to lay much deeper than that.
There is, and may always be, a fierce struggle to
accept this change in course that my life has taken, so seemingly against my
will. Some days I would give almost
anything to be free of this pain, and the fight to walk just a little bit
farther than yesterday. On other and
more frequent days, I truly feel blessed at how this has forced me to live my
life in a much deeper and intentional way.
However, most importantly, I have been determined to
find a way to bring some sort of sense to this all. I wish, more than anything else, to help
others along the difficult and rocky path that I too have been thrown on
to. In regards to how I will accomplish such a task, I
am still searching for the answer. But I
do believe that these trials will open doors for me that I would have never found otherwise. I am a
stronger and deeper person because of all that has happened to me these past
few years, and I am grateful, and also in some ways indebted, because of
it.